Can humility help engagements succeed?

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I was reading this article on Vox recently titled Intellectual Humility: the importance of knowing you might be wrong.

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It caught my attention, and I think we can expand on it a bit. Here are my thoughts.

1. Admitting when you’re wrong

Of course we’ve all had moments when we’re wrong. We make a proclamation, which turns out wrong. We measure something incorrectly. Or we forecast imprecisely.

It is hard to stand on the stage. The spotlight is on you. And when you do that you can be the object of criticism, and speculation. Just like everyone you may make mistakes, but when the spotlight is on you, it can weigh heavier.

That is exactly the time to be a bit humble, acknowledge your thought process, and where you went wrong. By standing up and admitting your mixup, you will come out the other side stronger.

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2. Admitting you might be wrong

This can be harder. As engineers we like to problem solve. We spend years exploring math & science, looking for the “truth”. The more one searches for it thought, sometimes the more illusive it can be.

Measurements are never exact. And theories and architectures often fail in the face of real world traffic. Applications fail. Servers fail. Outages happen. Customers especially paying ones will inevitably get angry, and this can backfire onto you.

Be prepared for the real world. It gets messy.

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3. Allowing space for others to be wrong

This is a tricky one. You may know what others don’t, but it may take finesse to share that truth. You may have to sell your perspective, even while another perspective may be measurably wrong.

Be prepared to sometimes let things break a little. As hard as this is, it may allow for others to learn.

Like immunizing, sometimes failure can teach what words cannot.

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